Friday, April 10, 2009

"Prince Charming Trainee"

How can a guy be more charming to a girl? (Im 13 and a male, btw)
So how can i be more charming and less annoying to my friends that are mostly girls?

Okay, first off, don't over-do the "nice guy" thing. It's rare to find people that actually care in this world, but trying too hard just makes things worse. Just try to relax. Everyone likes a good listener. You will surprise your friends when you show them that you are genuinely interested in their lives and can remember things that they have told you!

More importantly, don't be afraid to compliment them. If you notice that her hair/eyes/clothes look nice, let her know! (Not too often! Maybe every other time you see her) It will brighten her day AND keep you out of the "friend-only zone" when she eventually realizes you might be attracted to her.

Well, good luck and take it easy, and just to put it into perspective: you have YEARS and YEARS to get good at it!


**TheGivingTree

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