"Love Me, Love Me"

"My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 4 months, and we fight all the time. In one of our fights, he just told me he didn't love me anymore ... He isn't the same as we were before, and we almost break up daily, and I cry all the time, and I bitch and complain to him a lot too, mostly about not seeing each other and him not calling me. (because he never does and he told me he'd call me more) and, I really just don't know what to do, should I stay with him? should I throw in the towel? I never used to believe in heartbreak before, but now, I feel like he's ripping my heart out of my chest, it hurts so bad, but I love him so much ... and I need advice."

I don't know how to put this nicely, but would you want to call and commit to someone who cried and bitched and complained all the time? I'm guessing no. I understand you're worried about losing him and want to show him how much you care, but you have to ask yourself if you are behaving like someone he would want to be with.

You are sleeping so much because you are depressed, and if this relationship is the cause, you need to do something to take your mind off of it. Try exercising or starting a hobby with a friend. When he sees that you are enjoying your own life, he might want to make the effort to be more involved too. It's that whole "loving yourself before anyone can love you" thing.